How to Get Your Life Back On Track After You've Totally Fucked It Up
RECEIVE A SIGNED COPY BY SEPTEMBER 30, 2017.
I have never written anything more raw, more vulnerable, and more honest than this book. I wish I could start each chapter of this book by saying something like, “I’m not exactly sure how my life got like this;” but the truth is that I have personally participated in getting myself in every single fucked-up situation I have ever been in (post childhood). Let me further add that this truth was one of the most difficult realities for me to accept about my own life.
It would be nice to rewrite our own histories, to tell a much less self-destructive version of our truths; to leave the part out where “we knew better,” “had been forewarned,” or “just evaded truth at all angles.” For some reason it just feels better to be the hero who saved us from all of the hell and pain and shit in life, rather than the stubborn, self-aggrandizing asshole who was constantly getting us into it.
But if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that it takes a degree of inner strength, that very few people seem to have, to stop deflecting and truly take responsibility for all that we have experienced. On my bathroom mirror reads, “I am to blame, and I am to praise, always.” This is my daily mantra and personal reminder that I am always in control, and never a victim of anything but my own choices.
For most people, self-deflection seems to be an internal defense mechanism that refuses to allow you to take any degree of personal responsibility. But it’s in learning to change that behavior and way of thinking that allows your whole world to open up in ways you’ve never realized possible before. At the end of each and every day, it is imperative to sit with “truth.” And that truth is that you created this . . . whatever “this” may be. And it is that truth which will truly set you free, each and every night.
What we put up with, we will end up with. Not just from our relationships around us, but from every aspect of our lives. Our finances. Our expectations. Our pain. Our potential. Our passions. All that you have “put up with” you have ended up with. And THIS is the reality of all of our lives.
So let me prep you for what you’re about to read here. I’m not a writer as much as I may just be a storyteller of strange truths about life. You may not find yourself getting lost in the poetry of my personal language; but I believe that if you’re willing to be as honest with your own thoughts as I am going to be with this book, we may find some common ground that allows us both to grow in ways we never have before.
Responsibility is where this world begins. Acknowledge that you have developed an unhealthy relationship with yourself, and probably reality itself. Remove all thoughts of deflection and learn to have a reverential deference for your individual choices, all of which led to each chaotic moment, each fucked-up relationship, each life changing subjugation of your personal values and perceived ideologies.
This book is a “HOW TO” guide -- How to get your life back on track when you’re standing in the middle of chaos, when you don’t know who you are anymore, when you’re unsure where to go from here, when you’ve gained 80 pounds out of complete fucking naïve idiocy (thinking it would be just as easy - and fun - to lose it as it was to gain it); a HOW TO guide for finding yourself, truly learning to love yourself, and ultimately being willing to say “fuck it”…to the judgments, to the fears, to the worries and doubts…and learning how to live a complete and total epic life…the one that is calling out to you. And how to answer that calling inside of your soul that refuses to leave you alone in that mediocre life, that less than fulfilling marriage, and all of the prosaic things you’ve glorified for fear of change.
LET THIS BOOK CHANGE YOU, as much as learning how to write it changed me.
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The Top Ten Rules to Marriage
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How to save your marriage before it ends.
How to get on track and stay on track.
How to start off in the right direction...
...This book could be called all of those things.
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This is not for the easily offended or excuse making cowards who want to wake up every day in the same shitty life they're waking up in now. You want something different? You have TO DO something different.
In order to do something you've never done,
you have to become someone you've never been.
Grow up. Give your future a chance. Buy the journal. Be honest with yourself. And become the super fucking hero you were intended to be all along.
YOU KNOW you deserve better than the life you're currently living. You wouldn't have even clicked on this website otherwise. There are no accidents in the Universe. You're here for a reason. DO SOMETHING. BE SOMETHING.
Don't just GO through life...GROW through it. BE the person you were sent here to be. We're all counting on you.
PS. If this little book introduction offends you SO will the book.
PSS. If this little book introduction offends you YOU NEED TO BUY THE FUCKING BOOK more than you realized.
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