I've been married for 13 years. Unlucky 13, I know. 10 of them have been miserable. Seriously. I won't get into the details of why or how it all fell apart. But I feel stuck, and if I stay in this marriage I will continue to fall into a deeper depression than I already have. What is step 1 of moving on?
ANSWER: Step 1 has already been done it sounds like. It's making a decision. THE HARDEST STEP OF ALL. Make a decision and STICK TO IT. You know you want more, you both deserve more, and can both have more. Believe that, and move towards it. Step 2, is creating a game plan, and sticking to that too. Step by step.